when I die…  

Hopefully, it will not come anytime soon. I plan to see 100 years and beyond. But plans sometimes change. We’re not in control.

when I die…

Grieve. Take as long as you need to process the fact that I am no longer here. I will, however, always be close. I will be here in spirit.

when I die…

Do not let my loss weigh you down, but rather, celebrate our times together and let the memories lift your spirits.

when I die…

Be sad, angry, broken. Feel whatever happens to come up from within. But remember, you can also be joyful. I will take no offense. I will feel no disrespect. You are allowed to be both. Times might feel bittersweet. Cry when necessary, laugh when inspired.

when I die…

Be open to signs. Savor the moments that you feel closely connected to me. The coincidences that keep happening — so much so that they can no longer be labeled coincidences — aren’t.

when I die…

Know how much I love you. How much I will always love you and how deeply I know you will always love me.

when I die…

Honor me by living your life fully and fearlessly. Cherish the days. Explore your passions. Follow your intuition. Be you.

(Written for my children and included as part of my final wishes)

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